PLEASURES OF LIFE
A Little Tall Tale
By Barrie Reynolds
Our mother grew up in New York City, the daughter of a man who worked as a leather tanner in the garment district and a woman who made bathtub gin. Maybe because she grew up during the Depression, and because she had virtually nothing from her own childhood — not a doll or a book or a blanket — our mother became something of a hoarder. Growing up, my sister and I built a tunnel in our basement to find a way through all the stuff our mother refused to part with: a pinball machine, a basketball hoop, planters, old lawn furniture, small appliances and much, much more. Each and every item had a special story to explain why it had to stay exactly where it was.
When my mother was in her 60s and I was in my 30s, with great fanfare, she passed down to me her Carnival Glass baby dish. And it, like everything else, had a story to go with it. She told me her mother’s sister — her Aunt Tilly — visited their New York home shortly after my mother was born. Tilly, my mother explained, worked for the Philadelphia Railroad’s Pittsburgh office. When Mom was born, Tilly was desperate to see her new niece. It was during the war but, even so, Tilly managed to get four days off with pay. She had a coach ticket on the train, fruit and snacks, and a beautiful baby cap she had knitted for the newborn girl.
When Aunt Tilly arrived in the city, Mom continued, she decided to walk the 16 blocks to Houston Street, dragging her suitcase behind her. On the way, she paused to rest on a park bench. A stranger sat down beside her, and Aunt Tilly wanted to show this woman the knit baby cap, but it was gone! She’d left it behind on the train or lost it on the way. Distraught and in tears, it was at that moment that a beat cop walked by. Noticing how distressed Aunt Tilly appeared, he asked if she was OK. Through her tears, Aunt Tilly explained she’d lost an item precious to her. The cop was holding a wrapped package in his hands and said he’d found it nearby. He asked Tilly if that was what she’d lost. “No,” she replied, but she seemed so heartbroken the cop gave the package to her anyway. After he walked away, she opened it. Inside was a little amber miracle, a perfect gift for the newborn child. It was a baby dish — the very one my mother was now passing down to me.
Of course, I cherished my mother’s baby dish for many, many years. Then, one day, long after my mother had passed away, I visited my cousin, my Auntie Esther’s daughter Leslie, in Florida. My eyes were drawn to something in her china cabinet, an amber baby dish.
I was dumbfounded. “Matching baby dishes?” I wondered. Then I told Leslie the story behind mine. After she stopped laughing, Leslie explained that Uncle Louie — Auntie and Mom’s brother — once owned a gift shop in Mystic, Connecticut. And that, as they say, is the rest of the story.
I never did question the authenticity of my mother’s tall tales. And I’m glad I didn’t. The heart, like a little baby dish, holds everything.










